Sunday, August 2, 2009

Here are my notes from this mornings sermon. I did my best to not just focus in on homosexuality, but any sin that God is displeased with in our lives. Please give me your thoughts and maybe we can get a dialog going here.

“Don’t show favoritism” James 2:1-4

· My concern this morning is more about how the Christian church treats those who struggle publically with sin, any sin.
· Our series this summer is “Hot topics” and the topic of homosexuality is certainly one of the hottest...“Jesus, save me from your followers”

Text: James 2:1-4
· This text from James applies to attitudes of favoritism this church was showing towards those who were rich vs. those who were poor.
· However, the principle applies to our topic this morning also…
· The Bible is very clear on its stance toward homosexuality. In a few minutes we’ll look at some of the key passages that show that heterosexual relationships are God’s best for us.

v. 1 Don’t show favoritism.
· Why do we tend to show favoritism? Because we like to be around people who are like us. Most of us don’t want to get stretched into an uncomfortable place.
· Often when someone comes into our lives, and especially our churches who is in the throes of a sinful life, we just don’t know what to do.
· What is if they make a scene? What if they don’t change fast enough?
· Often we like to pounce on a single issue or sin in the Christian life and make that our cause…

A minister was completing a temperance sermon. With great emphasis he said, "If I had all the beer in the world, I'd take it and pour it into the river." With even greater emphasis he said, "And if I had all the wine in the world, I'd take it and pour it into the river." And then finally, shaking his fist in the air, he said, "And if I had all the whiskey in the world, I'd take it and pour it into the river." Sermon complete, he sat down. The song leader stood very cautiously and announced with a smile, nearly laughing, "For our closing song, let us sing Hymn #365, "Shall We Gather at the River."

v. 2 How do we show favoritism?
· By giving preferential treatment to those who “look or act normal.”
· When someone comes into our churches who looks a bit different, the judgment radar goes off.
· The same thing was happening to the churches that James is writing this letter to.
· “Oh, you are rich, good looking and don’t smell too bad, please, come sit right up front here (so we look good as a church).
· We can do the same thing today if we’re not careful, “Oh, you seem put together with no major sin struggles, welcome to our church!”
· But when someone walks in who looks “weird” (to you) or has an obvious sin struggle, we’re not sure how to greet them and what to do with them.
· We need to let anyone come right in, sit where ever they want and feel welcome.
· At the same time, we need to keep preaching the whole Bible, the truth of God’s word and let the Holy Spirit continue to convict each one of us in the areas of sin that we struggle with.
· Some of us wear our sins on our sleeves and some of us wear our sins on our hearts.
· God is just as grieved over the “obvious” sins that everyone sees and can easily name, as he is the “secret” sins that no one knows about.
· The key is not to get too self righteous and start thinking, “At least I don’t struggle with that sin.”
· James tell us that showing favoritism is sin, v. 4 “judges with evil thoughts” and . v. 9…
· Showing favoritism and not loving those who struggle with sin shows an immaturity in your Christian life and a lack of compassion for your fellow man.

Let’s take a look at some specific verses that help to clarify the Biblical stance on homosexuality.
· Lev. 18:22, 20:13 Those are pretty simple and straight-forward.
· Romans 1:24-27

· Galatians 5:19-21 We’re all on this list somewhere…helps us not to judge others so much.
How do we turn away from our sinful nature?
· Galatians 5:22-25
Pursue the fruits of the spirit
Crucify the sinful nature
Live by the Spirit, keep in step with the Spirit.


· Romans 13:12b-14.
(A call to turn away and do what is right in God’s eyes.)
Put aside the deeds of darkness
Put on the armor of light
Behave decently
Clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ
Don’t think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.
We need to dress for battle!

If we are going to avoid the trap of an addictive sinful life or habit, then it’s going to take some definite action steps on our part.
· Keeping clear of sin does not come naturally to any of us.
· If we don’t take steps like those described in Galatians and Romans, then we will be that person who is judged when we walk into church.
· People will be tempted to show favoritism and “not know how to deal with you.”


Conclusion: 1 Cor. 6:9-11
· Again, a list we all land on somewhere…today’s sermon really is for all of us!
· But the key words are: “And that is what some of you were.
· Through God’s grace, love, mercy and forgiveness, we can be washed, sanctified, justified (made right) in the name of Jesus.
· That’s called not being a victim of a sinful life, not trapped in a behavior you think you can’t get out of.
· That’s called victory in the Christian life.









6 comments:

Neil Konitshek said...

Evan,

This reminds me about all the prop 8 stuff that went on.

Jesus never mentioned anything about homosexuality while he was here on Earth. Yet it is obvious through scripture where Jesus stands on homosexuality. Jesus focused on saving the lost.

I did some evangelism yesterday and there was a young guy ( not that I'm old, but he was younger than me), who started creating a ruckus. I approached him and asked him what he thought.

He flat out asked me about homosexuality and if I thought homosexuals are going to hell. I politely told him that God created men and women for certain purposes, and that also liars, thieves, murderers of the heart and like all will go to hell if they don't accept Christ.

That seemed to catch him off guard in that I didn't target homosexuals and saw that Jesus came not only for homosexuals, but for all sinners.

While we didn't agree when our conversation was over, he may have a different view of how Christians view people.

Good word!

Anonymous said...

"Why would you treat this topic any differently than you would any other sin issue - sexual or otherwise. I'm sure you've probably had unmarried heterosexual couples in your services that were engaging in sexual activty together. How were they treated? For some reason many Christian seem to see homosexuality as a "worse" sin than sins they can identify with but God doesn't. Many homosexuals would find it refreshing to attend a church that didn't have a double standard about sexual sin even if that church didn't condone their lifestyle. It's actually fairly simple really."

Scott Harritt

Anonymous said...

Do you council celibacy for homosexuals?

Evan Lauer said...

Yes, I do council celibacy, but with the caveat that if that person is involved in a church, that the church take on the responsibility of friendship and companionship with this person, just like they should everyone else in the church.

One of the biggest problems in the church today is not knowing what to do with the homosexuals and how to treat them like any other human being.

A side note, in reality, there is a bigger problem in the church today with people in general having sex outside of marriage. I need to preach a sermon on that!

Anonymous said...

The American Psychological Association just recently passed a resolution suggesting celibacy rather than reparative therapy for homosexuals seeking to reconcile their sexual orientation and faith.

Your post seemed timely after reading that.

April said...

It really is a hard thing to know just how to handle the situation of accepting those who seem to continue in their sin (as we all do to some account)as if it should all be okay. Whether gossip, unmarried living together (pretty sure to be having 'relations') homosexuals, murders , ect... I believe that God's Word states...so do I go on sinning so that grace may abound? That is the dilema. Yes, I believe that ywe ALL have (and still do on occasion) sinned, but the idea is that we are continuing to repent of that sin knowing that it is wrong and continuing to strive to live as sinless life as possible. So...how do we approach the issue of those who openly continue in their sin in our churches? We must have love, mercy and grace. But to what extent? It is a very hard issue to come to a definate answer about. Thanks Evan for bring up the topic again. It is always good to contemplate life situations. God bless old friend. April